THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS ISSUE!!!

Most foreigners travel out of their country for exposure,more opportunities,change of environment and many more but my people Nigerians travel out solely to gather all the money in the world.From the day you step out of your house to the airport(whether the succeed in boarding the flight or not)as long as your local number is out of reach everyone around you start expecting money and things except for a few who understand,not to talk of when you actually calls with a foreign number to confirm you have arrived your destination.Families prepare themselves to live big at your expense,friends open their hands wide to grab as many as you can drop,even foes become friends automatically.So many people have been driven to the verge of desperation by demands of people back home simply because you live abroad.soon you become a very bad person and your friends accuse you of changing and forgetting them.I want to appeal to families and friends to stop pushing your children and friends to do unimaginable things just to please you.most of these people steal even from fellow Nigerians,defraud anyone that falls prey,gets into trouble,starve because of your unending demands.Even i had such mentality once that people abroad have enough money but i am telling you today that it is not so.you boast too much with your kids abroad that they don’t want to fall short of your expectation so they do all things possible both good and bad to maintain that status you have built for them in your head.Not many have jobs and the ones that are lucky enough to have jobs could hardly get by with the income.Over here nothing is free.The word ‘dash’..meaning to give freely or get something for free..which is commonly used by our people does not exist abroad.you have to pay your way through anything you have outside the country.Sometimes these people starve just to send something home so you can feel they are doing fine.Am not saying there are no good life and jobs abroad ..there are but not as we think.God still blesses his children abroad but people should stop pushing them to become desperate.The reason Nigerians have bad names abroad is because of Desperation caused by demands of people they left behind.these people need your prayers,support and understanding.sometimes they need money from you too(surprised?…yeah its true)too many broke people live abroad.Am fortunate to be blessed with great friends and family who follows me one day at a time with understanding and love but so many people dont have such people around them.Please save them the stress and high bp and allow them live a long life.NAMASTE……Image

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