May oh my may, you are here again to brighten my life with colourful designs…to crown me with GRACE and MERCY..oh may ,divinely set aside to constantly remind me of Gods perfect creation that i am..on your wings you carry my multiplication and positive surprises..hmm..i wont trade you for Silver or Gold because you are Gods timing made perfect..you are the month of children and children are the best gift of love God ever gave to man,the month of love..yet people wonder why i play like a child…the answer lies with May because am forever young at heart….WELCOME TO MAY…THE MONTH OF MY BIRTH……..MAY BABY ON POINT….like if you are a may born
Its a beautiful thing to be young and though we cant stop ourselves from getting older but we can control the pace at which we grow old,Age is a thing of the mind,just numbers though most people would have preferred to have it stamped on their forehead for recognition purposes and to command respect but in the absence of the- forehead-age -stamp the never fail to mention it a million times in a very short conversation.while some people in other parts of the world go for anti-ageing cream to make it impossible for anyone to guess their real age,people in my humble Nigeria would rather go for age-announcing -cream.Try falling out with someone in a group and the next thing you will hear is..Do you know how old i am? As if i care…As far as am concerned i would prefer to relate with a kid who has common sense than a foolish adult..though growing older is not a crime and is also accepted except when it comes to a parent and their kids…parents will always want their kids to remain young in their eyes no matter your level and achievement..I once said i wont forgive whizkid for growing up too fast..Imaging..his age grade did not enjoy him at all and i bet he didn’t experience most childhood tricks because fame snatched him from his mother’s breast before he had the chance to take baby steps..though its a huge blessing but there is a little lost of touch.
No matter your stage in life please never loose touch with the child inside of you,it keeps you young within for a very long time…STAY YOUNG..AMY LOVES YOU
How do you feel when your partner is in the limelight,do you feel left behind?…its always a thing of concern for most couple when their partner is a public figure. Some one asked me yesterday why celebrities divorce a lot and i replied…MISMANAGEMENT OF FAME..someone stopped trusting and the other stopped believing. Some ladies loose their inner beauty on the platform of serving the public while some men put aside the bigger picture while on this same track..Its mostly a huge nightmare for some husbands to watch their once tender wife turn into a-serious-never-smiling-monster.He would have preferred marrying a military woman in the first place than seeing the soft woman turn into most-feared without any notice.Then the fight to regain his place as a man sets in and before you know it,things have gone beyond repair.Note that you dont correct people by competing with them,they will never understand.when the home is hot each of These partners seek friends outside whom they can talk to and depending on the person you are talking to,you might end up pouring fuel into an already burning fire.I suggest to whomsoever is the shining amour of the family to carry your partner along,share your glory together,the shame,the criticism,the success ,the special moments and the not so good times. Dont form to be too busy to be there for each other and dont exclude them from your activities because they dont know the details of your job;make them know even if they cant participate at-least the knowledge will help them feel as if they are part of whatever you are doing. Dont leave your partner at home when going to receive awards and oh-thou-partner dont pretend as if you are not interested and then resort to whining when he/she is not looking..TO BE CONTINUED…..AMY LOVES YOU
I have the urge to write about this because of some personal reasons,it might bless someone.In as much as everyone sings about it,the truth still remains that not everyone has the confidence to commit to anyone;Some people can be your friend as long as there is no commitment and its not common with any particular gender,its an individual thing. To some it means tying them down when they actually want to be free. Committing to someone means you are ready to share and compromise; it means you are very ready to drop ‘ME’ and take up ‘US’.It means you stop living for you and start living for another; this stage of life most times comes with so much panicking in the mind of those involved,worry sets in.There are some relationships that go on so well that even the married will envy them yet they refuse to get married.Fear of the unknown sets in and questions begin to run through their minds..”what if i don’t do well” as if they are going for a competition..If you have people like that around you,don’t judge them,don’t call them names. No matter how long you have been in a relationship with someone,don’t assume they want to marry you because you might be shocked when she turns down your proposal or when he doesn’t propose at all; For your information relationships are meant to be a learning field for everyone,you learn to accept other people the way they are,you learn to adjust in your own do’s and dont’s thereby meeting each other half-way and if along the line you find some things that you definitely cannot cope with,it shouldn’t make you see the other person as bad or be seen as bad because its just a matter of choice; you have the right not to marry such person but be matured enough to tell them what you feel and why you feel so,sometimes it helps the other person to work on their flaws.
If you find yourself always afraid of being committed to someone,this is what you should do
1: Do a check up on yourself to discover what your fears are.
2: Also try to remember what caused that fear in you
3: Confront your fears
TO BE CONTINUED….ITS INPORTANT THAT YOU DROP YOUR COMMENTS AND TELL OTHERS ABOUT THIS BLOG…STAY ALIVE ..AMY LOVES YOU
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Mothers have a special kind of bonding with their kids which is a great gift of love but what am going to talk about today is not that but the very selfish kind of love they show.Once a mother is always a mother whether its her biological child or not,mothers a created and equipped with this feeling for kids regardless whose child it is and any mother who fails in this is not truly cut out for motherhood and does not deserve a child from mother-nature.womanhood comes with the responsibility of caring for people be it old or young that’s why most husbands call their wives ‘mummy’..Now this brings me to my topic of today which is actually a question lingering in my heart for so long…WHY DO MOTHER’S PROTECT THEIR KIDS AND GIVE OTHER PEOPLES KIDS FOR THE SLAUGHTER?….This is a sin against humanity and the heavens.When it comes to life partner especially mothers tend to become very selfish and wicked..An African mum will want the best for their kids no matter their condition,whether divorced,disfigured,sick,or sane;every mother will want someone to put up with their kids inability put will never encourage their own kids to put up with another persons child’s inability..I know a mother that has divorced daughters with children and prayed day and night till God favoured them with another husbands and they remarried happily but totally refused one of her sons from marrying a girl dat has one kid..thats the kind of selfishness am talking about.You are busy asking God to take away your reproach and God offers you the same thing you want someone to help you carry and you tottally rejects it,now tell me how can He answer you when you cant do for others what you want God to do for you..The golden rule says..DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT GOD TO DO FOR YOU..You see?..when you see some families going through some certain things ,don’t pity them because God looks at the heart before answering prayers.I have come to notice that those who have problems that can make headlines are the first to pick out peoples problem.A woman is begging a young girl to put up with her son in his disability but will be the first to stop the relationship between any of her healthy children and someone with a minor challenge…hmmm..life doesn’t work like that..am not saying that parents should go about hooking up their kids with partners that have issues or that has a past..all am saying is that if your child decides to stay with that girl despite her ugly past or your daughter wants to marry that guy not minding his challenges,just let them be and pray for them because if that other person is yours,you will still want happiness for them..love others like you love your very own..NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS PLEASE STAY ALIVE….AMY LOVES YOU